WILMINGTON, Del. — President Joe Biden on Wednesday honored his first wife and baby daughter 52 years after they were killed in a car crash in Delaware that is a defining moment for the lifelong public servant.
Biden’s wife Neilia, 30, had taken their kids — 1-year-old daughter Naomi and sons Beau and Hunter — out Christmas tree shopping when the car she was driving was broadsided by a tractor-trailer. Neilia and Naomi were killed. Beau, 3 and Hunter, 2, were gravely injured.
The president, his current wife, Jill, son Hunter and other members of the family attended a private memorial mass early Wednesday at St. Joseph on the Brandywine Roman Catholic Church near Biden’s home in Delaware. After the service, the family, with Jill Biden seen holding hands with Hunter’s young son, Beau Biden, walked to the cemetery behind the church where the gravesites are located.
Biden speaks often about the personal loss, sharing the story as recently as last week. He told of being in Washington with then-Sen. Edward Kennedy, D-Mass., when he got a phone call.
“I got a phone call from my local fire department, telling me there had been an accident,” he said at a White House dinner attended by members of Kennedy’s family. “And the poor firewoman they put on the call for me said — I said, ‘How are they?’ They said, ‘Uh, uh, um, she’s dead. Your daughter is dead. And I’m not sure your two sons will make it.”
Biden, who also was 30 at the time of the accident, talks about how he almost walked away from his career. But he took the advice of other senators, was worn into office at his sons’ hospital bedside and made a daily commute between Delaware and Washington on Amtrak.
Next month, Biden will close the book on a nearly 50-year career in elected politics and public service that includes 36 years in the Senate, eight years as vice president and four years as president.
His openness about his grief and coping with it, and his ability to empathize with others who have experienced loss, have become one of his trademarks.
Biden married Jill Jacobs in 1977 and she helped raise Beau and Hunter as if they were her own. Later, she and Biden added daughter Ashley.
Decades after that fatal car crash, Biden, as vice president, navigated through personal loss again when Beau Biden died of brain cancer in 2015 at 46. Beau Biden is also buried in the church cemetery.
