It can be difficult to feel satisfied in the bedroom when you’re worrying about your todger size.
Not only can it knock your confidence, it can also make different positions more difficult.
Thankfully, there are ways to make romps better if you aren’t very well endowed.
We spoke to Daily Star reader Trevor who has been very open about his antics in the bedroom in recent months.
The married man, who previously spilled on his sex sessions in lockdown, revealed the technique he uses to make him feel bigger.
After coming across a Daily Star Online story, Trevor began trying jelqing to boost his sex life.
What is jelqing?
To jelq is essentially to “milk” your penis which is believed to help you last much longer in the sack.
Previously, sexpert Kerri Middleton spoke to Daily Star Online about the technique, which is believed to date back to ancient Arabic civilisations.
The love guru recommends starting with a hot towel or a bath to ensure the tissue in the penis is warmed up and flexible.
Use lube, then encircle the bottom of your semi-erect penis with a finger grip and apply moderate pressure form the base to the tip.
Only ever do this when semi-erect and never push yourself too far.
You can cause damage to your intimate areas if you don’t approach jelqing carefully.
Can jelqing improve your sex life?
According to Trevor, the technique can work wonders.
Trevor told Daily Star Online: “To start I found it difficult not to get a full erection but have improved over time.
“And I’ve seen a small increase in size too. I’ve also been using an extender from Harmony Store.
“I prefer it to a vibrator because it feels like I am using my penis, but larger.
“This specific extender is also nice and tight and the ball loop holds it in place.”
Trevor has had to experiment with a lot before finding the right one.
He continued: “We did try a different one but it kept slipping off.
“My wife enjoys the size increase, especially as she likes the extra thickness.”
In recent months, the IT worker and his wife have become more aware of kinky techniques which cater for less-endowed men.
He previously told how the Supergirl sex position has helped to re-ignite the flames under the sheets.
The sex position is a fun take on the doggy style move which allows for deeper penetration, which makes blokes feel bigger.
It involves the woman lying flat on the bed, while her partner stands beside her and penetrates from behind.
And Trevor has been getting frisky more during lockdown as he’s had more time to connect with his wife.
He said in September: “It has been nice going to bed for an hour or two as we’re too tired in the evenings when we’re working.
“We’ve mostly had sex in the tried and tested positions with lots of foreplay which my wife very much enjoys.
“Also we’ve tried a couple of new sex toys and a penis extender which slips over to give me extra girth and length.
“It’s allowed us to try some positions which normally wouldn’t work so well for us.”