DEAR DEIDRE: I ONLY found how a lot my associate drinks when she moved in with me, and lockdown made it worse.
The beginning of our relationship was good.
We met on-line two years in the past and received on so properly I invited her to share my flat whereas she waited for her divorce cash that may go on shopping for her personal place. She is 38 and I’m 47.
She was consuming three or 4 bottles of wine every week however as soon as she was furloughed that should have doubled.
If she wasn’t asleep she became one other particular person, a horrible one.
She would even accuse me of dishonest.
Our relationship is poisonous when she’s been consuming.
I’ve requested her to get assist however she mentioned she doesn’t want it.
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DEIDRE SAYS: The sad truth is you can’t solve someone else’s drink problem for them.
Tell your partner that you love her sober but her drinking is killing your relationship.
She has to choose between the alcohol and you.
My e-leaflet Dealing With A Drinker can help you check you’re not enabling her alcohol problem without realising, and also details support.
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