A sexpert fears “fragile masculinity” is getting in the way of good sex – and finds it “utterly terrifying”.
Nadia Bokody exposed a bonkers trend, which involves guys bragging about not knowing about female anatomy.
These chaps seemed to believe female pleasure is irrelevant when they’re having sex – as all focus should be on them in their eyes.
In her news.com.au column, the Australian writer wrote: “One of the strangest displays of fragile masculinity I’ve witnessed to date is the idea being a #RealMan means sexually disappointing women, on purpose.
“I discovered this bizarre belief recently, via frequent protestations in the comment sections of TikToks I made joking about guys not being able to find the clitoris.
“At first, I thought the comments were satire, but as they continued to pile in, I realised they were in fact deadly serious.”
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Nadia added: “These men claim that, actually, they DEFINITELY DO KNOW EXACTLY WHERE THE CLITORIS IS, MMKAY? But, like, they just don’t care. Because ONLY SIMPS CARE ABOUT WOMEN’S ORGASMS, BRO! Reciprocally pleasurable sex? Ha! That’s for p**sies!”
One of the cringe-worthy comments received was from a man who claimed: “We all know the right spot and it’s not that we can’t find it, it’s we just don’t care”.
And another bloke bragged: “Yikes imagine actually caring if the girls c**s or not lmao I couldn’t care less”.
The sex columnist hit back at this comment, joking: “Tell me you’ve never seen a vagina before without telling me you’ve never seen a vagina in real life before.”
In order to combat this problem, Nadia is urging people to re-think what it means “to be a man”.
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She argued that men who are less concerned by “displaying emotions” and being alpha are more likely to put women first in the sack.
Multiple studies have looked into the “orgasm gap” between men and women.
It remains to be the case that ladies are a lot less likely to climax when they’re with male partners.
Sexual wellness brand LELO surveyed 4,000 heterosexual women and men from regions throughout the country to discuss their orgasms in detail.
The study revealed that men orgasm 66% of the time and women just 43%.
Almost one in 20 (4%) women have never orgasmed with a sexual partner.
Worryingly, men seem to be oblivious to this.
Males in relationships estimate that their partners reach orgasm 60% of the time.
In reality, women admit it’s only 48% of the time.
