Woman in polyamorous relationship reveals ‘sex contract’ with man and girlfriend

A woman has dished the dirt on her sex life in a polyamorous relationship.

Melanie Moseley, 56, started dating 69-year-old Cliff Rees and Charity Joy, 45, back in January 2019, after meeting them individually.

The 56-year-old, who said she used to be a “serial cheater”, has an agreement with the couple which outlines their sex schedules.

It sets out specific days when Melanie can have “alone time” with either Cliff or Charity, as well as days spent as a throuple.

She said that although she didn’t expect a relationship to work as a three, she has found a “deep connection” with Cliff and Charity.

And although their relationship isn’t official, Melanie explained that she also has the freedom to date other people.

She said: “In the past I was a serial cheater, now I’ve found a deep connection. I didn’t expect a relationship to work with two people.

“But we’re great communicators and we make sure that we schedule quality time with each other.

“I also have the freedom to date other people. Our relationship is really special.”

Melanie first met Cliff, a retired telecommunication executive, back in March 2018 during a salsa dancing class.

Although sparks flew for the pair, Melanie didn’t see him again so continued to online date and became a swinger.

She explained: “We danced together and sparks flew. But after that, I didn’t see him again, so I carried on online dating.

“I am twice-divorced, so, in time, I became a swinger because it made me feel less trapped.

“But I still longed for a genuine connection with a man or woman.”

Then seven months later, Melanie began chatting to Charity, a psychologist, when they both performed a dance show together.

She described her as “extremely sex-positive” and said she fancied her but didn’t manage to get her number.

Luckily for the two, Melanie bumped into both Charity and Cliff in January 2019, who were on a date at a bar.

She said: “I recognised them both immediately. They explained they were on a date and had been seeing each other for a month.

“I joined them and we all gelled so easily. Out of the blue, they invited me on a date. I was so excited.”

A week later, Melanie joined the pair at their house where they had a threesome before she was told the couple were polyamorous.

She explained how she was excited to try a new way of dating and the trio instantly fell in love.

Melanie said they have a sex schedule which gives her “alone time” with Charity on Fridays while Cliff is booked in on “set weekdays”.

The trio also allocate one day of the week where they go out for romantic dates as a trio and allowed to sleep with other people.

She explained: “We became an open polyamorous triad. But I still wanted my freedom.

“We all agreed we could still sleep with other people, as long as we practiced safe sex. We also allocated date nights.

“From then on, I had sex with Cliff whenever we felt like it on set weekdays, while Charity and I had alone time on Fridays.”

She continued: “On Sundays, we go out for romantic dinners as a trio and have threesomes together in Charity and Cliff’s bedroom.”

Melanie has also claimed the throuple often get comments about their relationship.

But fortunately, that doesn’t faze the trio who are still madly in love with each other.

Speaking about their relationship, Melanie added: “Now, we’ve been together for nearly two years.

“Although we sleep with other people, we mean the world to each other. I couldn’t be happier.”